When i was 11 i already looked like a 25 years old lady. It was very hard to live because people especially men didn't see me as the kid i was and were always chasing me. I confess, it was very disturbong for me. When i went in high school i fell in love with a guy that didn't love me at all. He was always laughing at me with his friends because i was fat, tall, i was not like the other girls. It was really painful to me. I gotta say that i started changing since this moment. I started taking care of myself so that he notices i'm a fine girl , so that he loves me but it never happened. Recently i realised that i decided to change for the wrong reason. Changing is an important decision and it have to come from us, not others. So i took another decision : loving and accepting my body no matter wath people say. In fact there will always be a bad person to tell me that i'm fat but i'll show him i love myself the way i am and absolutely doesn't care about his opinion. My method is to show my happiness by blogging. I'm a body positive activist and a fashion blogger.